Dependence within extended families

Negative effects of the extended family

Nature

Negative effects of the extended family include: lack of family planning and the use of the family as a means of social security, which involves child labour; obligations to support members of the family in need - this may include many people and the burden may fall on one breadwinner; family inheritance, which in certain communities divides land equally between sons and thus reduces the economic viability of holdings. The extended family in its social context may not be recognized by the law. New urban families face severe adjustment problems as they move into a more nuclear family situation, but the extended family may also be transplanted into the urban setting with increased family tensions from overcrowding, and the threat to the traditional authoritarian hierarchy from wider social affiliations.

Incidence

Dependence within extended families is a prevalent issue across various cultures, particularly in regions where traditional family structures are strong. In many parts of Asia, Africa, and Latin America, studies indicate that over 50% of households include extended family members, often leading to financial and emotional dependence. This phenomenon can be exacerbated by economic instability, with reports showing that in countries like India, approximately 30% of families rely on remittances from extended relatives, highlighting the intricate web of dependence that can develop within these familial networks.
A notable instance of dependence within extended families occurred in 2020 in rural Bangladesh, where the COVID-19 pandemic intensified existing economic challenges. Many families found themselves relying heavily on elderly relatives for childcare and financial support, as job losses surged. A local NGO reported that 65% of households in the region experienced increased dependence on extended family members during this period, illustrating how external crises can magnify familial reliance and reshape intergenerational dynamics.

Claim

Dependence within extended families is a critical issue that often goes unaddressed. It can lead to emotional strain, financial burdens, and a lack of independence among family members. This reliance can stifle personal growth and perpetuate cycles of dependency, hindering individuals from achieving their full potential. Society must recognize the importance of fostering autonomy and healthy boundaries within families to promote well-being and resilience. Ignoring this problem only exacerbates the challenges faced by future generations.

Counter-claim

Dependence within extended families is often overstated and not a significant problem. In fact, these relationships foster support, resilience, and shared resources, enhancing family bonds. The notion that dependence is detrimental ignores the cultural and emotional benefits of interconnectedness. Families thrive on mutual aid, and this interdependence can lead to stronger, more cohesive units. Rather than viewing it as a problem, we should celebrate the strength that comes from these supportive relationships.