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In certain circumstances several people may find it impossible to share a relationship simultaneously. They may then agree not to meet all together at the same time but rather as smaller compatible groups at different times. This formula is used in connection with child visiting rights of divorced parents. It is a basic feature of the conjugal relationship in polygamous families (which in West African societies, for example, allows the wives extended periods of freedom to engage in independent economic marriages. In large families it determines who does what with whom and when. Groups of families may alternate responsibility for all their children.
Metaphor
This concept could be developed as a means of forming coalitions in which some of the partners do not wish 'to be at the same table together'.
[Features]Recognition that the co-presence of some people is either not viable or not fruitful.
[Contrast]This approach is used to a limited extent in triangular negotiations via a mediator when two social groups are 'not speaking to each other'. This condition has not however been integrated into a stable coalition in which non-co-presence is an accepted feature.
[Keys]Nature of the transition between one relationship pattern and another. How the rules are established.